I'm going to be brutally honest, and I'm probably going to tick off a good amount of women, but a large portion of women that want to 'hook up' with me are heading for hurt. It may be that I'm too picky, or perhaps it's because I'm superficial, or maybe I've just been mistreated 1 too many times, but there are certain things I look for when I'm interested in dating someone.

 

 

Now, I have a lot of friends and acquaintances, all shapes, all sizes, all mentalities, all ages, etc. However, when it comes to dating, I'm pretty picky. It has nothing to do with what my family or friends think, but it has EVERYTHING to do with my personal preferences. When I'm in ' dating ' mode, I'm looking for a woman who is height-weight proportionate and that most people would consider attractive. Now don't go feeding me the 'beauty is on the inside'... I am superficial about looks, and if you aren't attractive to me, your 'inner beauty' isn't going to win me over. I also believe if you can't take care of yourself, I can't respect you... confidence makes you hot to me! I lost a lot of confidence a few years ago, and I know I looked like crap, and I rarely went out dating; when I snapped out of it, I had changed literally 180 degrees, I've dated a lot more, and most women told me that they love how confident, funny, and outgoing I can be. I am also looking to date someone that can keep up with my wit, enjoy my humor, and who is social. My closest friends are smartasses, and they are very outgoing, so I definitely need to be with someone that can keep up with them. In regards to hair, I prefer to date women with long brown or black hair, I'm primarily worn off blondes, and I have been known to enjoy the company of a hot redhead. I also prefer to date women that have some tattoos (not necessarily heavily tattooed, but at least a couple) as well as piercings, and women that are pretty adventurous.

 

 

Ok, so maybe I'm picky... but I do know what I want. I've been told by many that I am a good looking guy, and I feel I deserve a good looking girl. I will always be looking for an attractive tattooed brunette that is height-weight proportionate, takes cares of herself, knows how to have fun and be social, and can make me happy. Sadly, the majority of what I find isn't for me. Maybe I'm an a**hole, but at least I'm being honest in what I want; those of you that aren't the type of woman I want to date... well, we can always try and be friends.

 

 

This rant written by Joe Rosendorf Jr.  This is merely an opinion based on personal experiences, and is intended to inform based on those experiences.